PRAYING

With Christ in the School of Prayer

Day 8 – The Boldness of God’s Friends

Jesus said to them, “Imagine one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say, ‘Hey, I need a favor. Can you lend me three loaves of bread? A friend of mine has just arrived from a trip, and I have nothing to offer him.’ But your friend inside the house answers, ‘Don’t bother me. The door is already locked, and my kids are in bed with me; I can’t get up to give you anything.’ I tell you, even if he won’t get up and give you the bread just because you’re friends, he’ll eventually get up and give you whatever you need because of your persistent asking.” – Luke 11:5-8.


In a quiet town, under the veil of night, a traveler arrives at the doorstep of his friend. The host, realizing he has nothing to offer, rushes to another friend’s house seeking help. This scene encapsulates the essence of bold prayer and intercession.

This parable offers deep insights into the nature of prayer. It speaks not only of the act of praying but also of the attitude and heart behind it. The midnight requester represents the boldness we ought to exhibit in prayer. His audacity to wake a friend at such an unseemly hour is paralleled by our courage to approach God with our needs, irrespective of their magnitude or timing.

The friend within, initially reluctant, ultimately yields not due to the relationship but because of the requester’s persistence. This aspect of the parable teaches us a crucial lesson about perseverance in prayer. Our persistent knocking on heaven’s door, driven by faith and urgency, moves the heart of God. It is a testament to our belief in His power and willingness to provide.

Moreover, the parable urges us to expand our prayers beyond personal needs, embracing intercession for others. The boldness in prayer Jesus speaks of is not just for our sustenance but for serving those around us. Our prayers become a bridge, connecting the needs of others with God’s infinite resources.

Intercessory prayer, therefore, becomes a noble duty. It is an expression of our love for others and our trust in God. As we stand in the gap for those in need, our prayers become the conduit for God’s blessings to flow into their lives.

This narrative also invites us to reflect on our relationship with God. Are we approaching Him as mere petitioners, or as friends who share a deep, trusting bond? The boldness in our prayers should stem from this friendship, knowing that God is more willing to listen and respond than we are to ask.

Word in Action

Today, let us challenge ourselves to practice boldness in our prayers. Identify one need, either personal or for someone else, and commit to praying persistently for it. Approach God not just as a mighty deity but as a trusted friend, with the confidence that He hears and will respond in His perfect timing.

Wondering in the Word

How does understanding God as both a Father and a Friend change the way you approach Him in prayer? Reflect on this dual relationship and consider how it can transform your prayer life.